Russian soldiers who are running away, cannot find refuge in the anti-Russian coalition. Same as how the West treats other Russian escapees.
It is indeed hypocritical, for the West to keep saying that they are only anti-Putin, but pro Russian people. Yet are not opening their door to all of the Russians running away from Putin.
It is but natural. Of course they are against all Russians. That is what it has always been about. Putin is merely looking out for Russian interests in a Russian way.
Furthermore, this episode further illustrates that it is wrong to take in refugees into foreign states. Refugees should stay in their own countries, unless their while country is covered by lava or something. If we need to protect refugees, then we set up a safe zone inside of the countries for them to run to. Then we give them the means to protect and feed themselves.